That was out of line. Just because you created this group doesn’t mean you get the authority to choose who does what and tell them what to do. You think he was out of line for appointing people he thought would fit best, that’s his freaking job! He let you do it regardless, and yet, you still think he step out of line? I can’t even. Your attitude towards other people makes me feel uncomfortable. You complain to us about the little things you CHOOSE to do for us. Just because you don’t get the reaction you like from us, you complain about it? Try being a little nicer, or maybe stop trying to be king of the world. I hate it when you get mad at her and the both of you have problems. It’s like your relationship revolves around arguing and getting mad at each other and making things awkward for everyone else. I’m tried of having to deal with your issues. Tommy and I fight all the time, but do we EVER bring it to the attention of others around us? No. (Besides Peter, sorry dawg you my homie tho.) We keep it at home, or we get over it because we come in with smiles and helping hands regardless of what ever the hell we fight about. We don’t make shit awkward for other people. I understand all of us have a close bond with each other but STILL leave your issues with each other, we dont wanna deal with it. Just because you want to do something does not mean everyone else in the same car has to go with you. That was selfish. Very very selfish.
Lastly, not only does it make me angry that you think you have authority to say “I am the _____________ not him. I get to pick. _________ said I should do it so in doing it with ______.” Why at you making him do it? You have other options too. He has mother effing red hair for goodness sake and he doesn’t even wanna do it. He doesn’t want to be judges by the freaking congregation either. He only listens to you because he doesn’t want to say no to someone like you. So shit. You always think about the worst outcome obviously you don’t give a rats butt about this cause you just didn’t wanna ask the people ______ asked cause it wasn’t your decision. Selfish. And what gets me the most angriest is you were being rude about it in a negative way toward someone who just lost his grandmother and you were the one saying, “let me know if you need anything”.
I feel like whenever y’all make decisions to add other members, we, the minority who is as involved as you are, don’t even get to have our say in it. So if again that happens and I tell you your kids aren’t ready even after they confirm. I will quit. Invite them in and I will step away forever. Don’t get me wrong I have nothing against them. I just don’t work well with certain people. And trust me, me leaving will probably effect most if not many people that come. I mean just look at the show up last time. They were all my kids. Regardless, you were out of line.